Divorcing

You are going through a Divorce. You are feeling frustrated with the legal process, angry with your spouse, afraid for your children and what they are going through, uncertain about your future; socially, financially, emotionally. You would like to regain your footing and feel like your life will continue in a healthier way after this is all over.

There are ways to manage your divorce without losing yourself to anger and resentment. Negative emotions only take away from who you are as a person and your potential for the future. At this time it is important for you to keep yourself open for positive changes in yourself and for your family.

As a divorce attorney I worked with numerous clients going through divorce and custody issues. I understand the legal process, and can help you understand what is happening and what you can expect through the various stages you will go through.

As a therapist, I have worked with many clients going through divorce. I understand the emotions you are experiencing, and the problems you face. I ran a group called "Children Cope With Divorce" that focused on helping parents consider their children and their developmental needs, even at a time when the parents were most stressed over their own losses and anxieties. There are ways for you and your former spouse to offer healthy co-parenting to your children. Sometimes couples manage to parent even better separately when they are not struggling with their relationship issues with each other. In the event that your ex-spouse will not co-parent cooperatively, there are many ways you can continue to foster healthy growth in your children.

I will help you stay focused on your own evolving needs, care for your children as they adjust to two family homes, and help you prepare for your future.

If you feel that counseling could help you through your divorce, please Contact Me by phone or email.